Your best intimate years can still be ahead of you.
Private, one-to-one coaching for men over 50 who want honest answers about desire, performance, dating, and closeness. No partner required, no judgment, and no rush.
“It was as if he knew what I needed to talk to my girlfriend about but was putting off.”
Workshop participant, NSCIA Connecticut Chapter
Does this sound like you?
- You’re dating again after years of marriage or loss, and you’re not sure how to start.
- Your erections, desire, or stamina aren’t what they used to be.
- You worry about your size, your body, or how you’ll measure up.
- Back pain, heart disease, diabetes, prostate treatment, or other health changes have altered your sex life.
- Years into a marriage, intimacy has gone quiet and you don’t know how to bring it up.
- You want to do something, but your partner isn’t ready to talk about it.
What we do together
We talk about what is actually going on, in plain language. You learn how sexual response changes with age, health, and stress, what your options are, and how to get comfortable with your body again.
Then we practice: simple exercises, ways to talk about sex, and, if you’re dating, how to bring it up and meet someone with confidence.
If your partner isn’t ready
You can start on your own. Many men do. We work on what you can change, and on how to open the conversation at home without pressure. When your partner wants to join, we can add a session together.
Education from someone who has been there.
I hold a PhD in Human Sexuality Education and a Master of Public Health, and I’ve taught sexual health since 1996. I also live with a spinal cord injury, so I know what it means to rebuild your sexual confidence when your body changes.
Clear boundaries.
Coaching is education and support. It isn’t medical care or therapy. If something needs a doctor, or a therapist for depression or anxiety, I’ll say so and can work alongside them.
“The style of coaching he exemplified was not only of empathy and care, but he also managed to combine it with a smile or a joke… I want to thank Dr. Tepper for sharing with me his personal strategies and attitudes when facing challenges and difficulties, and my hope is that I can embody some of his ideas and apply them to my own life.”
Fees
Discovery Session
Free15 minutes. No obligation.
Clarity Session
$350One session of 60 to 90 minutes to map your goals and plan. If you enroll in the 3-month program within 7 days, the $350 is credited toward it.
Regain That Feeling, 3 months
$2,100Eight one-to-one sessions plus the workbook. Pay in full, or in three payments of $750.
Single session
$300Per session, by video or phone.
A sliding scale is available for clients with disabilities. Ask during your Discovery Session. Coaching is not covered by insurance.
Start with a private conversation.
A free 15-minute call to talk about what you want, with no commitment.